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How to Mourn Your Old Normal and Adapt to The New

At present each region must strive to take steps to adjust to the Covid-19 pandemic situation. A number of preparations were made to get to the new order of life. Several terms appear to describe this concept such as' Peace with Corona ',' Side by side with Corona ','

Adapt to Corona, etc. The Indonesian Ministry of Ministry of Education and Culture provides an explanation of the correct equivalent of the new term in Indonesian, namely 'new normalcy'. In essence, the new normal policy was launched by the Government of Indonesia to create an order/pattern of life with new habits or behaviors to develop a clean and healthy lifestyle.

Deaths from the novel coronavirus COVID-19 have surpassed 110,000 in the United States and mourning the losses of these lives is important. In addition, we are also mourning lost habits and ways of life that are casualties of the coronavirus.

Going out with friends, hugging a grandparent, even opening a door in a public place is on hold. Some of these changes were temporary. However, even as states begin to open up, changes in how we interact with each other and the world will likely continue for far longer."

We need to grieve the ways of life we have lost," according to William Glover, Ph.D., president of the American Psychoanalytic Association (APsaA)."Mourning is hard work," Sigmund Freud once wrote in his essay, "Mourning and Melancholia."

Image source Padek Jawa POS
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What makes mourning so hard is having to give up attachments – whether to people or to a way of life – that can’t be replaced. Letting go of what we have lost helps us move on with our lives, although we will always miss the people, places, and things we have lost; in that sense, mourning can never be complete.

Mourning and grief are an important part of coping with loss and essential in managing changes and accepting new realities. Recognizing that our pre-COVID lives may never return is a loss to be mourned, and the work involved in this mourning can help us move on and into the new reality.

However, some people struggle with the process more than others and resist by responding with illusions of control, refusing to take precautions, and showing contempt for politicians and public health officials who try to explain the changing realities of daily life.

In an article post on APsaA’s Psychology Today blog site, psychotherapist Shelley Galasso Bonanno, MA, LLP, writes, "Each person processes and expresses grief in their own individual ways, yet there is comfort and power in understanding that one is not alone during this pandemic." One way to cope with grief is by finding meaning in the present situation, although how one does so may be different for everyone. Yet finding meaning is different for everyone.

For some, it may mean providing food or assistance to a homebound neighbor, making masks for members of their community, or even donating money to help beloved organizations and venues stay afloat. Others may find meaning by expressing their emotions and reflecting on them with a therapist. Undoubtedly, there will be new ways to maintain relationships, enjoy life, and participate in activities with family and friends.

Meanwhile, being able to tolerate the pain of grief and find meaning helps sustain us in difficult times.The American Psychoanalytic Association has created a resource page for the public and mental health providers with resources to help cope with anxiety and grief during this global pandemic. 

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